6 Things You Need To STOP Doing If You Want A Better Sex Life

6 Things You Need To STOP Doing If You Want A Better Sex Life
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There are a lot of things you could do to improve your life in between the sheets. You could try a new sex position, hit up a different location, or maybe exchange some of the guys you're currently sleeping with for better models.

But honestly, none of those things will work if the problem with your sex life, is you! 

Here are 6 things you should stop doing in order to achieve a better sex life:

Stop Being Your Worst Critic

We all have insecurities. It's important to know that you don't have to hide them when you're having sex (or ever). The guy you're sleeping with doesn't care about the mole on your back or that you're 10lbs heavier than you'd like to be. In bed, he's only thinking about one thing...and I'm sure you know what that is.  

Stop Always Trying To Please Him

You want to please your guy. That makes sense. However, he shouldn't be the only one having fun. You're constantly going down on him and he never returns the favor. Sound familiar? Yeah, that needs to change!

Stop Bragging About Your Sexcapades

Your friends don't need to know every single detail of your sex life. Why? Because what they say can influence you. Your sex life is your sex life! You don't need any unnecessary commentary from your squad. 

Stop Waiting For Him To Make The First Move

If you want to have sex - make the first move! Don't wait for the guy. Take control of your sex life, instead of relying on him to do everything. You're both equal in this relationship. If you want the power, take it.

Stop Overthinking Everything

You want to be the best sex he's ever had. So you're constantly thinking about fun little things you guys can try in bed. The only problem is, the more you think, the more you stress yourself out. Sex should be fun, it shouldn't feel like work!

Stop Jumping The Gun

You don't need to have sex immediately. In my opinion, it's better to wait. And not just to make sure the guy isn't an asshole. Kissing, touching, and making out are incredibly satisfying and make the sex (when it does happen) way hotter!